Coach for an intentional life
I help you see what’s really going on, trust what you know, and make the choices that change what comes next.
For women who have built a life that looks good on paper and are quietly wondering whether it still feels like theirs.
And for women who are perfectly fine, thank you, and still curious about what else this one life could hold.
The questions underneath the question
Perhaps one of these has been following you around.
“Why am I not happier when, on paper, I have everything?”
“Is this the life I want, or just the life I’ve become very good at managing?”
“What do I want when I stop making everyone else the starting point?”
“Do I want to leave my job, or do I need something else to change?”
“Why can I make decisions for everyone else, but not this one?”
“Have I outgrown my relationship, or lost myself inside it?”
“Why can’t I switch off, even when nothing is wrong?”
“Is it too late to change direction?”
Your life does not need to fall apart before you are allowed to reconsider it.
Nothing has to be wrong.
You might simply want to understand yourself better, make braver choices and be more deliberate about what you do with your one life.
Sometimes the question isn't really the question.
Nothing here is one clean thing. It is a stack: the work, the people, the history, the part you would rather not mention.
We look at the whole stack. That is usually where the answer has been hiding.
What happens when we talk
See
I notice what is underneath what you are saying, and I say it back to you plainly.
The contradiction. The thing you keep circling. The part you have not quite said out loud.
Steady
You do not have to arrive with it figured out.
Bring the ambition, the doubt, the relationship, the business, the fear and the supposedly perfect life.
Choose
We make sense of what is actually happening.
You hear yourself more clearly and recognise the choice that is actually yours.
Act
Insight is not the finish line. Living is.
Something changes in your real life: a conversation, a decision, a boundary, a first step, or the thing you have wanted to try for years and kept calling impractical.
You get one life. It is worth paying attention to how you are spending it.
You don't need another person telling you what to do.
Sometimes you need someone who can see you clearly enough for you to hear yourself again.
Why me
I've spent the last 20 years building companies, brands, teams and communities, and a considerable amount of time figuring myself out along the way.
Marketing.
Entrepreneurship.
Founding.
Motherhood.
Loss.
Starting over.
Systemic work.
Human Design.
Energy work.
Life coaching.
All of it informs how I see people.
I wasn't lost. I was collecting life.
A career that has taken a few unexpected turns.
Companies.
Marketing.
Entrepreneurship.
Motherhood.
Divorce.
Loss.
Human Design.
Energy work.
Coffee.
Crypto.
And an unreasonable number of side quests.
All of it eventually led back to the same thing:
People.
In their words
Names withheld by request.
I always leave a conversation with Sanneke seeing things differently. She somehow manages to get to the thing I'm actually struggling with, even when I'm talking about something completely different. I feel calmer afterwards, but also like I need to do something.
I went to Sanneke because I was stuck. I had been going around in circles for months. She didn't tell me what to do. She helped me see what I already knew, and gave me the confidence to actually do it.
Sanneke is very good at seeing people. She remembers the small things, asks the uncomfortable question when it's needed and doesn't make everything into a big coaching exercise. I can bring pretty much anything to her. That's what makes it useful.
Working together
Start
Get to know each other
A free 30-minute conversation. No preparation, no pitch.
Work together
The Conversation
One paid conversation for the thing you keep circling. No larger commitment attached.
Work together
The Next Chapter
Twelve weeks with someone alongside you while you decide, try it, and adjust honestly.
Continue
Keep Choosing
For women who want to keep one independent perspective in their life, reviewed regularly.
Other ways to talk
When an hour is too small. Or the thinking cannot wait for the calendar.
An extended private conversation over dinner for the question that needs more room.
Discover Talk & DineAn agreed window of closer access between larger conversations, for weeks when you want to think something through as it happens.
Discover The LineFor Businesses
Build a company people actually want to belong to.
Belonging comes from how people are treated, how they relate to one another, how leaders behave, and whether people feel their contribution matters.
No stage, no programme. A chair, an hour, and someone paying full attention.
Let's talk.Really.
You don't have to know what you need yet. Tell me roughly what's going on and we'll talk for 30 minutes. No pitch, no preparation, nothing to get ready for.
Remote worldwide. On-site when it matters.
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